Last reviewed: October 27, 2026
There is a version of surgical residency that can be described on paper: rotations, cases, call, examinations, evaluations, milestones. Then there is the version residents actually live. In that version, one of the questions that quietly shapes a rotation is much simpler: Do I feel like I belong here?
Belonging does not mean everyone is your friend. It does not require a perfectly harmonious department, constant praise, or a social life built around your co-residents. It means that you are treated as a legitimate member of the working team: someone who can ask, contribute, learn, make an appropriate mistake, receive correction, and return the next day without feeling that your place has disappeared.
That sounds soft compared with technical skill. In practice, it reaches directly into how residents learn.

Belonging is built in ordinary moments
Residents often imagine that team culture reveals itself during major events. More often, it is visible in small repetitions. Are you told why the plan changed, or do you discover it after everyone else? When a case is added, does somebody remember that you are covering it? Can you say “I don’t understand” without being made to regret it? When you present an idea that is wrong, is the response educational or humiliating? When you are right, is your contribution allowed to exist?
None of these moments is dramatic enough to define a residency alone. Repeated hundreds of times, they create the learning environment.
Recent research supports taking that environment seriously. A 2025 study specifically examining social support and belonging in general surgery training found meaningful variation in how residents perceived support, belonging and program culture. Other work examining surgical learning environments has linked workplace demands, perceived stress, psychological well-being and burnout in ways that make it difficult to pretend that resident performance exists separately from the environment in which it is produced.
Why this changes how you learn
Surgery asks trainees to expose what they do not yet know. You present your assessment in front of people with more experience. You operate while somebody watches your hands. You make decisions that can be questioned immediately. You receive feedback in the same rooms where you are trying to establish credibility.
If the environment feels psychologically unsafe, the rational response is often self-protection. Ask fewer questions. Volunteer fewer uncertain opinions. Hide the knowledge gap until you can look it up privately. Avoid the case in which failure will be visible. Keep a difficult interaction to yourself.
That can make a resident look quiet, independent or “low maintenance” while actually reducing opportunities to learn. A 2025 study of shame-based learning across surgical training found that shaming remained common among surveyed residents and was associated with loss of confidence, psychological distress and professional isolation. Another general-surgery study found higher internalized shame scores were associated with higher odds of burnout. These studies are observational and do not prove that one experience causes another, but they make an important point: humiliation is not the same thing as rigor.

A demanding service can still be a good learning environment
Belonging should not be confused with low standards. A senior can tell you that your presentation was disorganized, your plan missed something important, or your operative preparation was inadequate. An attending can take over a step because the situation has moved beyond your current ability. A chief can expect you to know your patients.
The distinction is what happens around the correction. High standards tell you what needs to improve and leave you able to re-enter the work. Exclusion and humiliation make the resident’s status the lesson.
This is also why useful feedback matters so much. “You missed the change in urine output; next time trend it before rounds” gives a resident something to do differently. “How do you not know this?” mostly teaches the resident that displaying uncertainty is dangerous.
The resident who feels peripheral
Feeling outside the team is especially common during transitions. A new intern has no local reputation. A resident starting a new rotation has lost the shortcuts and relationships that made the previous service manageable. An international doctor may be learning an institution, hierarchy, language register and unwritten communication style at the same time. A research resident returning clinically may discover that the hospital kept changing while they were away.
This is one reason the first days of a rotation can feel disproportionately uncomfortable. As discussed in our guide to learning a new surgical service, competence is partly local. You can know surgery and still not know how this particular team moves.
The danger is interpreting temporary unfamiliarity as a permanent verdict. “I do not know how this service works yet” is different from “I am bad at surgery.” “These people have worked together for years” is different from “there is no place for me here.” Early residency supplies enough uncertainty without converting every awkward week into an identity statement.
You do not need the whole department
One of the more useful realizations in training is that belonging does not require universal approval. You may never feel close to every attending, nurse, resident or consultant. You may work in a department whose social style is very different from yours.
What matters more is having enough reliable connections that you are not professionally alone: a co-resident you can check your thinking with, a senior who answers when you are worried, an attending who knows how you work, a nurse who will tell you when something on the ward does not look right, or a mentor who can give perspective outside the immediate rotation.
These relationships do not have to be profound. In a busy service, reliability itself creates connection. Answering the message. Showing up prepared. Helping with the task that is not technically yours when the team is drowning. Giving a clean handoff. Saying thank you without turning it into a performance. Remembering that the ward is staffed by people, not functions.

When fitting in starts costing too much
There is another side to belonging: residents can become so eager to prove that they belong that they stop protecting reasonable boundaries.
You do not have to laugh at humiliation to show that you are resilient. You do not have to pretend fatigue is irrelevant. You do not have to hide a safety concern because everybody else appears relaxed. You do not have to become the loudest person in the room if that is not how you communicate.
Good integration should make it easier to contribute honestly, not require you to erase yourself. This matters particularly when hierarchy intersects with safety. The goal of speaking up in surgery is not confrontation; it is preserving a route for important information to move through the team even when the person holding it is junior.
What programs owe residents
It is tempting to make belonging an individual project: be friendlier, network more, become tougher. That misses the structural half of the problem.
The ACGME Common Program Requirements effective July 1, 2026 place well-being within the clinical learning environment rather than treating it solely as an individual resident responsibility. The ACGME has also emphasized systems approaches to well-being and the shared responsibility of institutions, programs and faculty for creating environments in which residents can thrive.
A resident can make an effort to connect. A program controls whether humiliation is tolerated, whether supervision is available, whether feedback is usable, whether schedules allow residents to function, and whether people who raise concerns are treated as problems. Those are not personality issues.
What you can do when you do not feel part of the team
Start by making the problem specific. “I don’t belong” is emotionally powerful but operationally vague. Are you being left out of operative opportunities? Are expectations unclear? Do you have nobody to ask for help? Are you receiving hostile treatment? Are you simply new and still unknown to the group? Different problems require different responses.
Then look for one workable connection rather than trying to win over an entire department. Ask a senior how the service really runs. Request one concrete piece of feedback from an attending. Offer to help a co-resident finish a shared task. If there is a pattern of exclusion affecting training, supervision or safety, document the specifics and use the appropriate program structure rather than trying indefinitely to solve a systems problem through personality.
And give time its proper role. Teams develop memory. The resident who was unknown in week one becomes the person people have watched handle consults, prepare cases, admit uncertainty appropriately and come back after difficult days. Much of belonging in residency is not announced. It accumulates.
The part of training that never appears in the case log
Residents remember the operations they learned and the emergencies they managed. They also remember who made it possible to learn without constantly defending their right to be there.
A strong surgical team does not eliminate pressure. It creates enough trust that pressure can still produce learning. You can be corrected without being discarded. You can ask before uncertainty becomes danger. You can become more independent without pretending you never needed anybody.
That is not an extra feature of surgical education. It is part of how surgical education works.
Sources and Further Reading
- ACGME Common Program Requirements — current residency requirements effective July 1, 2026.
- ACGME: Supporting Well-Being — systems and individual approaches to resident well-being.
- Chen JH et al. Enhancing Perceptions of Social Support and Belonging in Surgery Residency Programs. Journal of Surgical Education. 2025.
- Investigating influential factors and mechanisms of surgical resident well-being using social network analysis.
- Smith SM et al. Internalized Shame Experiences and Burnout in General Surgery Residents. Journal of Surgical Education. 2025.
- Association of Grit and Shame Based Learning on Burnout in Surgical Training. 2025.



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